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Stop Being a Hater Ass Bitch…

November 3, 2016 | by Kisses Kloset


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Ok Ladies so we all been here before. That  hot feeling that boils up in your soul when you see something another chick has and you don’t, or when you see her get attention that you didn’t get. Oh I hear you (Not me I Never)  you can lie to yourself if it makes you feel better temporarily, but the faster we face the issue the faster we can be more happier inside 🙂  *Stay with me here*

ENVY, Oh it’s one serious feeling and we ALL feel it at time. Some know how to channel it to better theirself, OTHERS let it sit inside and eat them alive which eventually turns them into a HATER.…. So before I scream at you Hating bitches let me first define what a hating ass bitch is….

we gonna use the Urban Dictionary definition of a Hater for this one

Hat·er
ˈhādər/
noun

A person that simply cannot be happy for another person’s success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.

Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesn’t really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock some else down a notch.

Yes that’s right you hating ass bitches who say things like “HATING?! I DON’T WANNA BE YOU!”  You don’t have to want to be me to hate on me. You’ll just see a person looking and feeling glossy and because you don’t look and feel it, you become a hater!

You could be the Prettiest girl in the world who TODAY decided to beat your face like it owed you money and a HATER would STILL be like ” She aint all that without makeup”. How about the chick who has a badass body it will always be one hater “If i had money Or if I didn’t have kids  I would look like that too….” (Just a hating ass somebody). A Hater can NEVER Give someone their props they will look you up from the crown of your head to the tip of your toes to find something to hate on… It makes them FEEL better to knock the person down.

Some people are just FULL BLOWN HATERS We can’t help them. They been hating for sooo long it’s in their Bloodstream, they don’t even realize anymore when they hate. It’s like regular conversation to them, you tell them they’re a hater and they will be REAL LIFE SHOCKED.  Then you have the rest of us, who sometimes have Hater Moments, We’re Not haters but sometimes envy hits you and you feel a type of way. I know because it happens to me more than it should.

LUCKILY I’m trying this new positive way of thinking and it’s been helping MAJORLY with curving my hateration. Wanna know my trick?!? Every Time I have a ‘hater like’ thought I let it flow through my mind and pay attention to which part of ME  it hits the most. I then Close my eyes and say something positive about me. Sometimes that’s all the hate need is validation that you are also as good as the person you are currently hating on. Once I do that the feeling lessen. I nip it in the butt by  complimenting the person (in my head of course). Reassuring myself that there’s nothing wrong with her it’s something wrong with me for searching FOR her flaws. Trust me once you do this enough, those nasty thoughts will slow down, it will become easier for the hating thoughts to automatically transfer to positive compliments to yourself ( and who don’t like getting compliments?!?) 

Ladies this part is especially for you! With all the hate we as Women get from Men, WHY do we continue to further the hate on our sisters?! It’s like we want acceptance from them even if it means agreeing with their derogatory statements made against us. Im guilty of joining along with them at time but seriously think about who really supports us. We need to stick together uplift each other more, Protect your own! Women Empowering Women you gotta Love this!!

So try my technique out let me know if it works for you. Have any other Hater curving methods?! Let us know SHARE THE WEALTH!!

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